As a notorious bridge burner, I’ve never really looked back at any relationships romantic or otherwise with any regrets about leaving them behind. But now I look at my friends on Facebook for example and it’s like a graveyard of used up friendships. Some people in my past do from time to time contact me in one way or another; but what is soul destroying are the friendships that were so tight I never thought I’d ever be looking back wondering why I haven’t seen or heard from them in over 10 years. I have a completely different life now. So I guess I’m asking myself, how long is too long? Is it ever too long? Truth is, I miss them so very much, but I’m so afraid of the possible rejection I haven’t had the guts to reach out.
Have any of you guys been in the same position?